Sunday, October 19, 2008

Maturity is not just a word~!  

How often do u recall hearing somebody u know or maybe not often referring to themselves "Im matured,unlike those people".chances are..pretty much dont you think and it never fail to put a grin to my face every single time cuz the self-judgement itself shows how naive and immature they are..

i stumbled upon a few facebook and friendster account while surfing today...(yup,wuz being a total bum due to bad flu and sleepless nights)..anyway,its out of d subject..what i observe is individuals claiming themselves being so mature and criticizing other people which i guess would be thier enemies..u see,thinking they are is one thing,actually saying it out is another..and actually making it their shout out is a total-embarrassment if it were me..so i dun really understand how egoistic can they be?

i use to know a few low-self esteem girl..which now surprisingly climbed up to stardom due to a certain function..which she did'nt win pun..but it gave her a boost of confidence..and now telling d whole world how great and matured she is compared to her friends, and specifically referring herself as the "beautiful" one and bitching about her friends that did'nt appreciate her wen she was so called "ugly"..so does'nt dat make u immature and "uglier" inside?

But hell,d bottom line is..i think maturity is judged by actions, how people think , how a certain individual handle a situation, or how others perceive u and tells u dat you are "matured"...not claiming you are 1...so i hope she and my other buddies realise it soon cuz its annoying and it can save yourself from d embarrassment in later days aite?people can judge and see u..even how much u make-up,fake or even claim maturity..cuz in d end..its only u that think so.~

Wednesday, October 15, 2008

Words that you can carry through life..  

Its actually the most inspiring song that i hear almost everytime im in doubt or feel like giving up..if its possible,do find d song and listen..its a great song with beautiful life-based experience lyrics. d title is Sunscreen(everybody's free) by baz lurhmann...if im not mistaken, a movie by baz lurhmann which movie critics predicts to be a hit is coming out soon..an australian film with hugh jackman and nicole kidman acting in it ..so be sure to check it out and do leave some comments..enjoy and cheers..~

SUNSCREEN ( EVERYBODY'S FREE )- BAZ LURHMANN

Ladies and Gentlemen of the class of ’97
Wear sunscreen


If I could offer you only one tip for the future, sunscreen would be
it. The long term benefits of sunscreen have been proved by
scientists whereas the rest of my advice has no basis more reliable
than my own meandering
experience…I will dispense this advice now.

Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth; oh nevermind; you will not
understand the power and beauty of your youth until they have faded.
But trust me, in 20 years you’ll look back at photos of yourself and
recall in a way you can’t grasp now how much possibility lay before
you and how fabulous you really looked….You’re not as fat as you
imagine.

Don’t worry about the future; or worry, but know that worrying is as
effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing
bubblegum. The real troubles in your life are apt to be things that
never crossed your worried mind; the kind that blindside you at 4pm
on some idle Tuesday.

Do one thing everyday that scares you

Sing

Don’t be reckless with other people’s hearts, don’t put up with
people who are reckless with yours.

Floss

Don’t waste your time on jealousy; sometimes you’re ahead, sometimes
you’re behind…the race is long, and in the end, it’s only with
yourself.

Remember the compliments you receive, forget the insults; if you
succeed in doing this, tell me how.

Keep your old love letters, throw away your old bank statements.

Stretch

Don’t feel guilty if you don’t know what you want to do with your
life…the most interesting people I know didn’t know at 22 what they
wanted to do with their lives, some of the most interesting 40 year
olds I know still don’t.

Get plenty of calcium .

Be kind to your knees, you’ll miss them when they’re gone.

Maybe you’ll marry, maybe you won’t, maybe you’ll have children,maybe
you won’t, maybe you’ll divorce at 40, maybe you’ll dance the funky
chicken on your 75th wedding anniversary…what ever you do, don’t
congratulate yourself too much or berate yourself either – your
choices are half chance, so are everybody else’s. Enjoy your bady,
use it every way you can…don’t be afraid of it, or what other people
think of it, it’s the greatest instrument you’ll ever
own..

Dance…even if you have nowhere to do it but in your own living room.

Read the directions, even if you don’t follow them.

Do NOT read beauty magazines, they will only make you feel ugly.

(Brother and sister together we'll make it through
Someday your spirit will take you and guide you there
I know you've been hurting, and I know I've been waiting to be there
for you. And I'll be there, just tell me now, whenever I can.
Everybody's free.)

Get to know your parents, you never know when they’ll be gone for
good.

Be nice to your siblings; they are the best link to your past and the
people most likely to stick with you in the future.

Understand that friends come and go,but for the precious few you
should hold on. Work hard to bridge the gaps in geography and
lifestyle because the older you get, the more you need the people you
knew when you were young.

Live in New York City once, but leave before it makes you hard; live
in Northern California once, but leave before it makes you soft.

Travel.

Accept certain inalienable truths, prices will rise, politicians will
philander, you too will get old, and when you do you’ll fantasize
that when you were young prices were reasonable, politicians were
noble and children respected their elders.

Respect your elders.

Don’t expect anyone else to support you. Maybe you have a trust fund,
maybe you have a wealthy spouse; but you never know when either one
might run out.

Don’t mess too much with your hair, or by the time you're 40, it will
look 85.

Be careful whose advice you buy, but, be patient with those who
supply it. Advice is a form of nostalgia, dispensing it is a way of
fishing the past from the disposal, wiping it off, painting over the
ugly parts and recycling it for more than
it’s worth.

But trust me on the sunscreen…

(Brother and sister together we'll make it through
Someday your spirit will take you and guide you there
I know you've been hurting, and I know I've been waiting to be there
for you. And I'll be there, just tell me now, whenever I can.
Everybody's free.)



Tuesday, September 30, 2008

Congratulations To My Dearest~  

This post is specially to congratulate my dear baby Michelle for d successful interview. Now u can be my personal Financial Planner since ur in d banking line eh? Not only that.thanks for everything, for being there,always understanding why i act a certain way and never fail to make me laugh every single day. Thanks for believing in me and stood by my side through d hard times when nobody ever was there before i met u. Smart, matured, sassy, and an eye-candy to every eyes dat lay on u..Perfect! Im not really good with words so i'll wanna dedicate this song dat speaks whatever i have to say.

THANK GOD I FOUND YOU - Mariah & 98 Degrees

I would give up everything
Before I'd separate myself from you
After so much suffering
I've finally found unvarnished truth
I was all by myself for the longest time
So cold inside
And the hurt from the heart it would not subside
I felt like dying
Until you saved my life

(Chorus - all)
Thank God I found you
I was lost lost without you
My every wish and every dream
Somehow became reality
When you brought the sunlight
Completed my whole life
I'm overwhelmed with gratitude
Cause baby I'm so thankful i found you.


(98 Degrees)
I would give you everything
There's nothing in this world I wouldn't do
To ensure your happiness
I'll cherish every part of you
Because without you beside me I can't survive
Don't wanna try
If you're keeping me warm each and every night
I'll be all right
Cause I need you in my life

(Chorus - all)
Thank God I found you (I'm thanking you)
I was lost lost without you (so lost without you)
My every wish and every dream (every dream, every dream)
Somehow became reality
When you brought the sunlight (brought the sunlight)
Completed my whole life
I'm overwhelmed with gratitude
Cause baby I'm so thankful I found you.

-Bridge- (Mariah & 98 Degrees)
See I was so desolate
Before you came to me
Looking back I guess it shows
That we were destined to shine
After the rain to appreciate
The gift of what we have
And I'd go through it all over again
To be able to feel this way

(Chorus - all)
Thank God I found you
I was lost lost without you (lost without you baby)
My every wish and every dream
Somehow became reality
When you brought the sunlight
Completed my whole life (whole life)
I'm overwhelmed with gratitude
Sweet baby I'm so thankful
I found you


(Chorus - all)
Thank God I found you
I'm lost lost without you
I'm overwhelmed with gratitude
My baby I'm so thankful
I found you

(Mariah)
I'm overwhelmed with gratitude
My baby I'm so thankful I found you

Selamat Hari Raya!!..where walks of life meet once again~!  


First and foremost, i just wanna wish all my muslim friends, anybody who knows me personally and random readers, Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri 2008! Just like any ordinary raya for d past 5 years,there's not much huuhaa dat i can say..obviously cuz im not celebrating it but what ever happen to my d days where invitations to open houses are repeated many times throughout the week before raya like it use to and by the same person?

Yes times has changed, friends grew-up separately but does d friendship has to be ignored?anyways, i know i muka tak tau malu here but to any muslim buddies frm perimbun..gimme a holla..not dat im out to finish ur rendang,ketupat,kuih bahulu,lemang and all d mouth-watering dishes..but to meet up and catch up where we left off..remember d 5 years gathering??

DOnt mis-understand me dat im lonely or desperate for friends, i got plenty but things are gona be busy soon as soon as i enter d new phase of life..no more mr.trainer with heavy deadlines and killer working hours but u know how caught up i get with work...cuz i aint wana hear d yakking bout me forgetting u guys, work more important den meeting up and i forgot u guys so here i am, free till November.

Im still using d same hp number so anytime now..SELAMAT HARI RAYA AIDILFITRI again..

Cheers~ KB

Different Crossroads  


Its been a really confusing month..birthday,new job,moving away,cilz is back frm u.k but got not time to meet up (empty promises)...condolences to best buddy's dad who recently passes away,starting 2 new businesses...can i handle it? will it work? what happens if d plan fails? so many
questions,events ..but so little time and answers..i ponder,i wonder... everything happens for a reason but is dat a fact of a lame excuse to calm or divert a certain feeling when u know it has high potential of failing....